Sean: [my gf's] health is not the best
Sean: I figured I might be able to do something about that thru navy benefits
Sean: she has a tumor behind her eye
Me: So you're marrying her so she gets your navy benefits?
Sean: i'm not married
Sean: and no time soon
Sean: it looks like
Me: But if you aren't married how is she going to get your benefits?
Me: I'm confused
Sean: It's confusing, so you are not wrong
Sean: my family is giving me the business about how i should be getting married
Sean: but they are scaring her away
Me: so they want you to get married. but they are scaring her away. she needs your benefits but you aren't getting married soon for her to use them. sorry.not sorry but this is confusing.
Sean: accept it.