The Boy just got back from two weeks in Delaware where his family owns a vacation house.
Before he left I asked him to bring me something back because I've never been to Delaware. Hell I kind of forget it's a state to be honest. At first he seemed a little put off by my request. He is not a gift-giver and assumed I wanted something worth a lot of money.
I quickly reminded him that i prefer gifts that are considerate. It didn't even have to cost money. I just wanted him to bring something back from a state he loves. I wanted him to also think of me while he was away and having to look out for a gift to bring out would mean I was in his thoughts.
Yesterday was his first day back to work and despite the ups and downs I continue to have with this boy, i must admit I was happy to see him. He was tanner and he got a new haircut but mainly I was happy at the sound of the way he said my name when he saw me.
I was even happier when he opened his locker and pulled out a gift for me.
In a medium sized plastic dole peaches jar the boy brought me sand. His family's vacation home is located on the biggest (or only, I wasn't paying attention to specific) beaches in Delaware. He spent the majority of his vacation walking along the boardwalk and laying in the sun. He remembered I got sea shells a few months ago for my birthday....
...he thought that they could finally have a spot to rest in the best sand on earth.
In the words of my someone listening nearby to this exchange: "that's kind of romantic for someone who's just your co-worker"
You're telling me. Le sigh.
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there is just NO excuse for this kind of MIXED-SIGNAL, SWEET-GESTURE, WHAT-THE-FUCKERY. I have been on the receiving end - though not in years - of a great deal of mixed-signal sweet-gesture what-the-fuckery, and i know it when I see it.
I want to shake this Boy until his teeth fall out of his head, and some sense gets knocked INTO it.
I haven't even written yet about his prospal that I move to Delaware with him. He wants me to move to Delaware...with him...where we will live in his parents condo...together. But he 'still loves his gf and she's the one for him'
WHATDAFUQ?!?!?!
This boy is killlllling me.
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