After several attempts to hang out with me outside of work I agreed to see a movie with the weird janitor dude. Maybe it's because I am really lonely? Maybe it's because I've been so disappointed with the job search? Maybe i am just being a 22 year old girl who likes and wants some kind of affection? But i agreed to see a movie with him on Christmas Eve.
This is not a date right? I have no interest in this dude outside of being friends. But he has asked me so many times, that I am running out of excuses. So I am seeing a movie with a guy. A guy that may or may like me more than a friend. A guy
Shit. What have I gotten myself into. Can I back out now with some stupid excuse? Shit. I am freaking out.
3 comments:
don't back out of it. it'll be good practice for you. at least a chance to do something with someone outside of work. just be sure that you don't give off mixed signals; if you have to, come right out and say "this is not a date, i'm not really interested/looking right now/etc"
go into it with the mindset that, at best, you'll have a really good time with a person who could be a friend, and at worst, you'll probably have an entertaining story to tell, or good material for writing at some point.
Wait a sec...isn't this the Nape Toucher? I say, if you're getting creepy physical vibes from a guy, and you don't want him to think it's a date, recruit another girl to go with you. That way, you're still going out and being social, you don't have to ditch him, and you send a very clear FRIENDS message.
This is the nape toucher! Which is why I think he may think this is a date. If he doesn't call, I won't dare to contact him and if I accidently don't answer my phone if he calls...well accidents happen.
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